Thursday, 16 August 2007

Abundant Relationships......

Money is Not the Real Issue - In my coaching practise I find that many people do not feel abundant because they fixate on a problem such as a lack of money. Lack of money never stops anyone living an abundant life. the real issue is usually a lack of vision, direction, self-belief, motivation or support.
Blessings Flow to You - When it comes to receiving any good thing, gift or blessings it is worth taking a look at the quality of your friendships, and relationships. This is because blessings and gifts flow to you through your relationships. A boss may promote you, a stranger may surprise you, a relative may support you. A person may give you a moment of love, joy or passion that stays with you a lifetime.
Being Fortunate - Your relationships determine how good things flow to you. There was some research made into luck some years ago by psychologist Richard Wiseman. Firstly he found that lucky people feel more motivated to pursue and achieve their dreams and ambitions. And just as importantly he found that lucky people tend to enjoy meeting and connecting with people, use inviting body language, tend to smile and make eye contact alot and initiate conversations enabling them to create strong network of friendships. All of this optimises the chance of a fortunate encounter.
You Can Network- You can open to greater fortune by improving the quality and the quantity of your connections. In my own life I have learnt the power of networking successfully with other people. Networking is definately a skill that can be learnt. Finding a group that supports you networking is a great resource.
You Can Learn to Receive – Learning to receive is a skill that most people do not know. Most people know about giving because we are taught to give. Yet if you are not open to receiving you will block the flow of things and experiences coming to you. A quick way to be open is to look out for blessings, appreciate them and say thank you when they arrive.
Time for a Review? - When it comes to friendships do you feel encouraged and supported by others to head in the direction of your desires and dreams or do you feel discouraged or criticised? Since relationships are so important if it is the latter perhaps it is time to review your relationships!

Blessings, Steve

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