Now although I would not call myself a positive thinker I have learnt to focus my thinking towards the kinds of activities or situations I really want to think about. It is a strange thing that we can get caught up in thinking about things that give us pain and misery. When we are thinking about those things we can start to become a pain to be around.
Now it is possible to start living in a loving and supportive universe but only if you think so. Thinking habitually creates beliefs. Beliefs create reality. In this world of over 6 billion people there are over 6 billion different realities. Some people choose a joyful reality and then this becomes a habit. After a while they do not need to keep making the choice for joy it just kinda happens. The real question is which reality are you choosing? If it is one you do not like then somewhere you have made a choice and it has become a habit in your thinking. The good news is that it is never to late to make a different choice.